The Teapot's Cabin

i always like to look at things around me and reflect....it may be a good trait or it may be otherwise. good because i tend to see things beyond of what they meant to be...but bad because i tend to overthink...and the latter has always gotten me into trouble.... it is the time of the year again...the year is ending soon....and time to reflect on the year again...and plan for the year ahead......sigh....... so much so that i like to look forward, at times the past and the reality seem to pull you back in....to realize that life is so shitty at so many areas, with its many nooks and crannies.... all lump into one.... it takes time to enlighten all these shit in life...but do we have the time to do that? life is indeed short. have seen both extremes lately and it is scaring the hell out of me (yes, i admit that).... guess, i just have to live in the moment and leave God to do the rest. Come what may. God bless us all. Amen.

It is very interesting to see how two person react to the same situation. I'm speaking from my own experiences and looking it on my colleague's experiences. Well, keeping the details and names off, let me give you a few examples....  a) the boyfriend does not text the girlfriend for a few days. Girlfriend A takes it hard and got mad at the boyfriend because knowing that he has his phone with him all the time, yet does not reply to her texts. Girlfriend B on the other hand, just play it cool, knowing that the boyfriend is busy and will need his own space. b) the couple decides to go on a date, to hang out and spend time with each other. Boyfriend A ask girlfriend A to decide, saying that girlfriend  A is more familiar with places around the city. Girlfriend A got mad and insulted by such thoughts. Boyfriend B ask girlfriend B to decide. Girlfriend B have no clue. In the end both laugh it off and randomly headed to somewhere. no need to ask the details, i certainly wou