The Teapot's Cabin

Hypocrites..just a bunch of people whom i despise the most.. i just can't bear with these kind of people...some may call it two-headed (or more headed) person, but just a simple 9 letter word sums the whole meaning of who that person is.. and with the challenges in everyday's world...im afraid of turning into one... the question is just a simple one : is it so hard to be who you really are? is it so important to alwaz wear a mask or put on a show just so to fit in? to feel belong? that is just what being a hypocrite is all about... to hide your true self... through out these years (not so long a period la),i began to realize who i really am. i realize that i have alwaz wanted or tried to be someone who im not just to feel belong, and it really took me a long time to actually noticing that it is really eating me inside out...the torture and misery that you have to go through, to put on a mask to face people whom you are not comfortable with, to put on an act to mingle with peopl...

Understanding..such a simple word, yet holds a thousand (or more) meaning..a very deep and valuable word. all it requires it just two right frame of mind, moving hand in hand...simple and cliche as it sounds, but that is just what that builds understanding between two (or more) individuals. let me quote what Gandhi said, which really strikes me : Harmony is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony that is just what understanding is all about...things that are in harmony brings understanding..if one mind outweigh the other, then misunderstanding occurs.. thats just a fact, an ugly truth...learn to embrace it, and life would be much better

Life..i just love talking about it..hehe...as cliche as it may sound, well life is just life itself..interesting yet not trouble-free.. it is indeed complicated.just a four letter word, yet so much meaning in it... the ups and downs, the joys and disapointment, the success and failures..its just unmeasurable..yet, it is still a fun-going process, if we know how to look at it. Life is indeed fun...although with tears, sadness, disapointments, yet it still has alot to offer..looking through the lines...these bad episodes, will just help us to be stronger..it teaches us what are the not-to-do things, what is and what is not.. it builds us inside out, to be a more matured person, to know what is right, to know how to think for the best... well, life is full of setbacks..obstacles after obstacles..nothing comes free in life (as the famous saying goes)..everything comes in pairs..good things will come with bad things, success comes with failure..well, thats just life.. like it or not, we are...

Today i came across an ancient Chinese story which speaks about Life and Fate! it tells of how our lives had been planned since our birth till the very last day..which we often known this phenomena as FATE.... it also states there at the end of the story that each individual are fated to certain things, thus we shall not force ourselves to do things or to experience things which we aren't fated to do...how true is this statement? well, personally, i do not really believe this.. although looking back to where i am now, it does seems like everything has been perfectly planned out...with a new job, this spells new opportunity, new challenges, new experiences...experiences which will only make us a better individual, a better person, strong enough to face the multi changing world... life indeed is fated. each person is fated to certain things in life..but it all depends on whether we would be willing to accept it and live with it.. which is of course easier said than done..as we would...

As cliche as it sounds..thats the truth..the end of a chapter truly marks the beginning of a new one...thats just how life is..we can't be always staying static at one point in life..we need to keep moving...as we aged, we grow (well, now i sound old to myself..hehe)...but thats just life! Time waits for no man...its our choice to determine how we would want to fill that time! be it working till your hearts content, or enjoying till your pockets run dry, or just sit and lay back reminiscing of the past....we all have our own mission and vision about our own life...definitely everyone wants to succeed in life, but the only thing that differs is how we actually define success in our life. some may say that earning more money defines how successful we are, some may say having someone to love and be loved is already a success...well...success is individualistic; every individual have their own fair share of success..well, to me..success is just very simple..to be contented with what yo...

God has a plan for all of us...cliche as it sounds, but that's a fact! a fact which i proudly support!... Life with all its ups & downs certainly make it even more interesting and of course, more meaningful..something which make us what we are today..going through some bad experiences will only make us stronger mentally as well as emotionally..only then do we feel grateful of everything that we had or have...family, friends, a job, etc. it teaches us that life is not to be taken for granted with..if we want to succeed, we have to work for it..that means taking risk, taking chances...being courageous enough to take the big leap!! yes! that is what it is...a doubtful leap initially, but life has to move on...opportunity has knock on my door, and now its time to move on...life hasnt been very kind to me lately, and i feel its already the right time to start anew..to take the risk and move on to greener pastures..to start a new phase..to take up new challenges....as plan by HIM!! A...

The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you depending on how you respond to them. Unfortunately most people fail to see how God wants to use problems for good in their lives. They react foolishly and resent their problems rather than pausing to consider what benefit they might bring. Here are five ways God wants to use the problems in your life : 1. God uses problems to DIRECT you. Sometimes God must light a fire under you to get you moving. Problems often point us in a new direction and motivate us to change. Is God trying to get your attention? “Sometimes it takes a painful situation to make us change our ways”. Proverbs 20:30 2. God uses problems to INSPECT you. People are like tea bags. If you want to know what’s inside them, just drop them into hot water! Has God ever tested your faith with a problem? What do problems reveal about you? “When you have many kinds of troubles, you should e full of joy, because you know that these troubles test your faith, and this wil...