The Teapot's Cabin

I have always wondered what does it feels like to find someone that is compatible, in many ways...not just in term of love relationships, but in any form of relationships....friendships, work colleagues, etc.... and what happens if you don't? will you still be happy? I have always drown myself in distractions, particularly work, just so to distract myself from all the harsh reality of relationships. the heart is a fragile priceless asset of ours, and it is our main duty to always guard it from all sorts of hurts and pains and anxieties and brokenness in many ways...and hence, I often make it a point to always look at things on a wider scale before deciding whether to put another foot in or go closer, for the fear of the heart...all for the heart...Amen.

Sometimes the happiest people are the saddest behind closed doors. Enough said.

hmmm...so much to say, so much to share...where shall I start?... hmmm.... oh well, it's been dramatic, as always....life is never a boring story...first it was the world cup, then it was the tragic story of MH17..and then in between these two happenings, all the small tinny weenie stories at work... fuhhhh...tiring man! world cup was indeed fun. I remember the first time when I was introduced to this whole hype of the game. back in 1998, when I was in year 6. I remember even creating a file, cutting pics, pasting them...scrapbooking! it was pure fun..and that was when the love of the game came about... it wasn't about handsome players or coaches, but mainly of the game n the art of it...and people still wont believe when you tell them that is the reason behind it.... oh well, people have different reasons for everything that they do and like...so be it.. and then the tragic story of MH17. I personally know of friends who lose their love ones in this incident...and I even...

It's always been the human nature to compare and then start complaining! true? i assumed it is as that is always what i have been hearing and put through these recent times... people are complaining about this and that, unfair treatment, low wages, being misunderstood, etc.etc. but then again, you canot please the entire world and vice versa. i was once "there" too....complain and complain, easier to say it out ba, but when it comes to action, NOTHING! .. just as what was shared in a talk i recently attended, the speaker said its always about what you do with that feeling, that will determine the outcome (well, that's what i summarized la..different people may see it differently)...i totally agree with what was said in the talk... when you know you are in a very bad position, everything that you do and say has already clearly showed you how wrong in a position you are in, but why do you still complain and stay put there? isn't the world has so much more to offer...

hmm....its been a while since my last post...well, lets just say I had problems with the internet connection, which disallowed me to blog whenever I want to...so it wasn't my fault, but the computer's! familiar? of course...being humans, generally...we would always find all possible reasons to break free from feeling the guilt... we would always want to find a "scape-goat" just so that we are able to escape from the whole situation and be free from responsibility... as the  saying goes, "ignorance is bliss".... true for those who are ignorant, but what about the one who was being ignored? having my own fair share of experience, I can say that I had the privilege to be on the other side of "phrase"...meaning, I was the one being ignored...and it is really not blissful at all... to be ignored is annoying, it shows your unworthiness and the lack of responsibility...and im talking not just in terms of workplace, but it can be related to just about ...

Challenges after challenges...struggles after struggles... life is never ending with its own fair share of stories.... after going through and settling one problem, you thought things will be all right, and then another hits you.....and we will start the whole process all over again, complaining and whining about why things are always so unfair to us... but then, its always how you perceive a problem that will eventually determine how hard the consequence will be....how a person interprets the whole situation will determine how serious it all is...I am speaking this on a very real experience which I encountered... and this is what the human race knows as "miscommunication".... a problem that is so petty, so small, so insignificant, yet to some, it is like a life-changing problem; a do or die situation, a life and death situation.... funny how it seem when you are in one of the person involved in it...to you it may seem nothing, but to another, its the whole world... so le...

A morning post...for once, i think. Humans, being humans...can't be stirred of their own thoughts and actions. The minute you questioned them about their actions or opinions, they go all defensive about it and would not back down, and instead you are made to back down... familiar? well, maybe for some, but i always get this... Being me, I like to question stuff. stuff of which i am very doubtful of, stuff of which i am certain is wrong, stuff of which will bear negative consequence not just on me, but on the people around me... and i guess this character of mine is not acceptable by the majority human race. maybe cause i am loud, so people tend to think i am scolding.. hahaha... well, i know i may be abit overboard at times...you know, the famous bahasa saying, "berani dengan membuta tuli"...that's me, in a way. i can get over-excited or over-angry over things without thinking about it.. and that has seriously brought me to trouble alot of times...and since then...