The Teapot's Cabin

i wonder how much can you hate or rather dislike a person, even after the person has passed on? It comes as a shock to me that humans are not so forgiving after all, even after the person has left this world.. why is it so? why can we let the person leave in peace, but still hold on to the anger and frustration within? over the weekend, a friend passed on, shockingly which led to this post now. His cousin whom I texted to send my deepest condolences his loss, showed me how deeply he was hurt, with a deep anger and frustration within against his cousin. It then got me thinking....the saying of the closer a person is to us, the deeper the hurt is when the relationship is broken...and this was clearly shown... It is sad to see such a thing happening, because knowing both of them previously, their relationship was rather close, family bond. but to see it today, that closeness was shattered, is indeed a sad thing.. so much so that we would want to help mend this relationship, but it is...

It's been almost 3 weeks since my last posts and looking back at that post, there was more conviction to what I wrote after I caught up with a friend with similar thoughts last weekend..... indeed. time to walk the talk....a gentle reminder of that thought...which showed that it is a valid thought and I am not alone to think such :) Diverting from that.... that wasn't the main topic of this post....so couple of days ago, as I was at my daily routine...i began to realize the beauty of silence.... not that i dislike silence, but i forgot the essence and beauty of it because I have been noisy all these while... it got me thinking, that all these while, I have been questioning and questioning and questioning just about anything and everything that I encountered. But then it suddenly hit me....what would the opposite party think of me? how will they take those questions that I keep throwing to them? with every question, there is certainly risk of being judged....as they can always...