The Teapot's Cabin

Being a best friend and being a good friend has its significant difference. I didn't realize it until it hit me in the gut recently. A good friend will be there to give you advice but only a best friend will be there to give you the honest truth, whether you like it or not. A best friend is someone who knows you inside out, and therefore is able to see you better (sometimes) than you can see yourself. And because of that, they are able to tell you the truth about you...but definitely only from their point of view...yes, the truth hurts! nobody say the truth is a bed of roses and smell of perfume. it is bad, hurting and ugly. and a best friend is there to always tell you this, but also bear in mind that they will never leave you alone to discover the real truth or to justify their claim of the truth.  It is definitely not easy to be a best friend because of the fear surrounding you when you need to tell the truth. but you just have to do what you have to do sometimes...and th

Here it is again...my default birthday post...though one day late this year, but nonetheless, i still would like to say something here... This year is indeed different abit. It marks a milestone for me, turning (big) 30 this year...never would i imagine a few years ago how would my life be turning 30. all these while, 30 is something very huge for me. it marks something big, meaningful, something significant as it signifies me becoming adult, mature i hope, but rather an adult, officially! that was how i always look at, 30... but then, when it did hit me, that i am 30 this year, it seemed like any other day to me. nothing big, nothing hoo-hah about it as how i would picture myself to be....although i always thought that i would be married by the time i am 30..oh well, these stuffs are not for us to be controlled of....  however, one thing that is different this year is that after so many years, i finally have my entire family to celebrate this 30th birthday with me. on the r

What is the best feeling in the world? In my personal opinion, the best feeling would be to love and be loved in return. That would be the best and greatest experience any human being can encounter. LOVE. a simple four-letter word but holds a huge meaning in life. Being in love takes a lot of risk. it is in fact a choice. to be in love or out of love, it is a choice. a choice made freely without any reservations. Being in love entails risk as it is mainly the matters of the heart. the heart is place in the core, of which once broken, will be hard to get it back in full anymore... hence, the risk to place that fragile heart into a love relationship, is huge. and therefore, the returns are huge as well. to be loved in return. Pray for the best. God bless us all. Amen.