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Love based relationship

Been having the mood to write alot lately..hehehe.... too many happenings to just pen it down...or maybe just cause i have the time to write and not just fall dead previously.... hahaha....life has seem to be of more colour lately...and so i write... something was brought to my realization just very recently..and i found it to be just so beautiful...this somehow relates to my post, the one just before this.... when i talk about Love being the centre of it all..and indeed, when love is the main player, all else just becomes secondary. very recently, i was just thinking as i was caught in the traffic jam on my way home (yes, there's where reality always strikes me...when im caught in the jam and nothing moves, but only your head).. how beautiful it is for a relationship to just be rooted on love alone. just love, nothing else. not the person's background, not the person's interest, not the person's political believes, not the person's religion, nothing. but just l

When love is the centre of it all

When you do something out of love, you would know it..why? because when people start questioning you about the why and the what, you would be left dumbfounded...all because, you did it from the heart, not the head.... deep? well, think about it. something to ponder about..... that same gist got me thinking a few days back....why i have been doing what i have been doing for the past few years....although it is a struggle for myself, but i just kept doing it...and i just realize, that because i have the love for what i was doing...and all these while, i thought it was just a simple moral obligation or rather, precisely, my Christian duty, my duty as a Christian to serve my 'neighbors'.... but then again...when i get questioned or being put in a difficult situation, where you just have to know which way to go or rather the right path to choose, that's when you search your heart for the answer...and that was where i found it... it took me a while to realize this whole situa

Focus on the right thing

Life is short. When you think things are working well and going for the better, suddenly you get the news that all you thought it was, was in fact the opposite. things take a different turn and going down hill. it is devastating when such a thing happen. but as a friend pointed out, it is all in God's time, not ours. we can only continue to pray and hope for God's mercy and miracle. and another news i heard was about  a friend who was retrenched from her job. and then another news about an abortion due to multiple health problems of the child in the womb...... and all these news cascade from one to another...all within the same day, just within an hour! life is just so fragile and unexpected. anything can happen with just a blink of an eye. we struggle with life, with all our challenges. we complain at the indifference we encountered, we complain about how hard we worked while others are just reaping the benefits that we sowed, we complain about the injustice we feel when o