The Teapot's Cabin

Affirmations. Few know the existence of this word and even few know the meaning and also the importance of it. Lucky I am, to be among that "few". Affirmations are very important. Being affirmed for what you have done or for being who you are is an acknowledgement of your contributions, your work and merely your presence! yes, it is indeed such an important motivator that will helps you get going when things are really rough. well, sadly enough, many are unaware of affirming the people around you. one thing for sure, because people are so used to take things for granted or just taking advantage and thus, forgot all about your mere presence in a particular situation...sad but true fact...sigh... Well, affirming is not entirely praising as praising is mainly focusing on the good side of you, but affirming is merely acknowledging or recognizing whatever you have done (whether good or bad). Imagine you are going through all the struggles and sacrifices in life, especially at ...

I just can't seem to understand how people are so occupied with what other people are doing while their own lives are in jeopardy! This is a mystery that I really could not understand. Well, guess that it is always easier to see the fault of others rather than to see our own faults. In fact, we will not see our faults as faults because for us, everything that we do is correct! True? Of course I'm right (see what i meant? haha) And when we fail to see and acknowledge our faults ,thats when trouble comes. Worse still is when we know we are in the wrong, we still want to deny our wrongs and choose to be blind. Do not bother what others are doing, always look at yourself first. If we do not accept ourselves, then how can we move on? Only you know your ownself the best, so why bother about others when you yourself is in such a mess? it is not wrong to be concern and aware of your surroundings, but do not let that get too much into your head that you neglect your own self/life. Y...

Often enough, it is very hard to just "be yourself"...you always have to try and fit it with whatever situation that you are thrown into and it does not allows you to show who you truly are....and when you get the chance to finally show your true colors, thats when people mistaken you for being "a changed person"...the irony of life! well..being a change person for the better would of course be the preferred option anyone could have, but we would never be able to control what others feel or think towards you..when someone comes up to you (when they have the courage to come up to you) and say that you have changed, it usually causes misunderstanding if we do not really listen or try to understand what they are trying to convey to you...after all, who would better know you than you yourself alone.... but looking at it on a positive note..if people notice you have changed, means you meant something to them for them to take a notice in the first place..which is a go...