Affirmations
Affirmations. Few know the existence of this word and even few know the meaning and also the importance of it. Lucky I am, to be among that "few".
Affirmations are very important. Being affirmed for what you have done or for being who you are is an acknowledgement of your contributions, your work and merely your presence! yes, it is indeed such an important motivator that will helps you get going when things are really rough. well, sadly enough, many are unaware of affirming the people around you. one thing for sure, because people are so used to take things for granted or just taking advantage and thus, forgot all about your mere presence in a particular situation...sad but true fact...sigh...
Well, affirming is not entirely praising as praising is mainly focusing on the good side of you, but affirming is merely acknowledging or recognizing whatever you have done (whether good or bad). Imagine you are going through all the struggles and sacrifices in life, especially at work or at home, all with the good intention of having a fulfilling life...BUT, no one notices you or just simply neglect you and put you out of the equation, all with the reason that "it is your responsibility to do it!" (no regards to any situation, just a general statement, sorry if anyone is/was offended or terasa) And things get worse when it does gets into your head; "yeah, it is my responsibility, therefore i MUST do it"...and when you finally get your head together, it is too late to regret because people will just continue to deny your existence!
yes people, it is a cruel world out there but all that is needed to turn it around is just some simple affirmations. complement each other, giving feedbacks positive or negative (just so to let them know that they play a role too), support them or as simple as just accepting them for who they are. A simple word of encouragement and acknowledgement will certainly be a motivational force to continue with life.
So people, please affirm the people around you. Help make life worth a living and not just because it is our duty to live! It is never too late to start now
Affirmations are very important. Being affirmed for what you have done or for being who you are is an acknowledgement of your contributions, your work and merely your presence! yes, it is indeed such an important motivator that will helps you get going when things are really rough. well, sadly enough, many are unaware of affirming the people around you. one thing for sure, because people are so used to take things for granted or just taking advantage and thus, forgot all about your mere presence in a particular situation...sad but true fact...sigh...
Well, affirming is not entirely praising as praising is mainly focusing on the good side of you, but affirming is merely acknowledging or recognizing whatever you have done (whether good or bad). Imagine you are going through all the struggles and sacrifices in life, especially at work or at home, all with the good intention of having a fulfilling life...BUT, no one notices you or just simply neglect you and put you out of the equation, all with the reason that "it is your responsibility to do it!" (no regards to any situation, just a general statement, sorry if anyone is/was offended or terasa) And things get worse when it does gets into your head; "yeah, it is my responsibility, therefore i MUST do it"...and when you finally get your head together, it is too late to regret because people will just continue to deny your existence!
yes people, it is a cruel world out there but all that is needed to turn it around is just some simple affirmations. complement each other, giving feedbacks positive or negative (just so to let them know that they play a role too), support them or as simple as just accepting them for who they are. A simple word of encouragement and acknowledgement will certainly be a motivational force to continue with life.
So people, please affirm the people around you. Help make life worth a living and not just because it is our duty to live! It is never too late to start now
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