Love based relationship

Been having the mood to write alot lately..hehehe.... too many happenings to just pen it down...or maybe just cause i have the time to write and not just fall dead previously.... hahaha....life has seem to be of more colour lately...and so i write...

something was brought to my realization just very recently..and i found it to be just so beautiful...this somehow relates to my post, the one just before this.... when i talk about Love being the centre of it all..and indeed, when love is the main player, all else just becomes secondary.

very recently, i was just thinking as i was caught in the traffic jam on my way home (yes, there's where reality always strikes me...when im caught in the jam and nothing moves, but only your head).. how beautiful it is for a relationship to just be rooted on love alone. just love, nothing else. not the person's background, not the person's interest, not the person's political believes, not the person's religion, nothing. but just loving the person as he or she is. just that. be it his/her personality of just the way he/she carries herself.... that to me is really pure love, where nothing else matters, but only this person's character and his/her qualities as a person in whole. well, disclaimer first....im not talking on love relationship or boy-girl relationship only, but just any relationship in general... it can be friendship, parent-child relationship, employer-employee relationship...just about anything..

too deep to understand? well, ponder upon it. i can admit, that i am lucky enough to experience such relationship based purely on love, and love alone. and indeed, it is just beautiful...

look beyond your relationships..alot of relationship were linked due to some common interest, or some common topic to talk about...and nothing more.....there is no more love in most relationship and that is what's sad about our people these days.

Love is all we need. God bless us all. Amen.

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