Hypocrites
Hypocrites..just a bunch of people whom i despise the most.. i just can't bear with these kind of people...some may call it two-headed (or more headed) person, but just a simple 9 letter word sums the whole meaning of who that person is..
and with the challenges in everyday's world...im afraid of turning into one...
the question is just a simple one : is it so hard to be who you really are? is it so important to alwaz wear a mask or put on a show just so to fit in? to feel belong? that is just what being a hypocrite is all about... to hide your true self...
through out these years (not so long a period la),i began to realize who i really am. i realize that i have alwaz wanted or tried to be someone who im not just to feel belong, and it really took me a long time to actually noticing that it is really eating me inside out...the torture and misery that you have to go through, to put on a mask to face people whom you are not comfortable with, to put on an act to mingle with people which are not in the same wavelength with you (which only make you an idiot in front of them)..yes! through all this, ive learn to see things in a whole different manner...to see the bright side of things! for example, the misery and torture that we have to go through with "not same gang" type of people, helps us to examine who we really are, to get to know the other party (in an uncomfortable way) and to know who or where you belong to! its like a matter of try-and-error..you will never know the error, till you try it...thats just as simple as it sounds, but of course harder in reality! a true conviction in life..
hence, to avoid being a hypocrite, its just two ways : to confront the conflict, or to just avoid the conflict....the simplest way (for me), is to just avoid it.. no comments, no arguments, no disfigurement,..i came in peace, i shall leave in peace... though being in such difficult situation may require good judgement and a courageous heart..BUT be assured, that HE will always guide you to whats best for you. Trust in Him! ALL for the GLORY of HIM. Amen!
and with the challenges in everyday's world...im afraid of turning into one...
the question is just a simple one : is it so hard to be who you really are? is it so important to alwaz wear a mask or put on a show just so to fit in? to feel belong? that is just what being a hypocrite is all about... to hide your true self...
through out these years (not so long a period la),i began to realize who i really am. i realize that i have alwaz wanted or tried to be someone who im not just to feel belong, and it really took me a long time to actually noticing that it is really eating me inside out...the torture and misery that you have to go through, to put on a mask to face people whom you are not comfortable with, to put on an act to mingle with people which are not in the same wavelength with you (which only make you an idiot in front of them)..yes! through all this, ive learn to see things in a whole different manner...to see the bright side of things! for example, the misery and torture that we have to go through with "not same gang" type of people, helps us to examine who we really are, to get to know the other party (in an uncomfortable way) and to know who or where you belong to! its like a matter of try-and-error..you will never know the error, till you try it...thats just as simple as it sounds, but of course harder in reality! a true conviction in life..
hence, to avoid being a hypocrite, its just two ways : to confront the conflict, or to just avoid the conflict....the simplest way (for me), is to just avoid it.. no comments, no arguments, no disfigurement,..i came in peace, i shall leave in peace... though being in such difficult situation may require good judgement and a courageous heart..BUT be assured, that HE will always guide you to whats best for you. Trust in Him! ALL for the GLORY of HIM. Amen!
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