The Teapot's Cabin

Stop judging that you may not be judged. (Matthew 7:1) This is very applicable in our everyday lives. Often enough, judging is part of our daily conversation.. a gossip is already a judging.....hw many times do we actually need to remove the log in our eyes before we can see the splinter in others? have we not realize our own faults before blaming it on others (although they may be equally at fault too)...yes. it is a very challenging and difficult thing to do or practice, but it is not impossible... Besides that, prejudice and perceptions and also the past of a person, causes us to judge them. and because of that, we always choose to see them on one angle, and forgetting the fact that there is always two sides of a story...if only we choose to listen, and not just hear... we always just hear with our ears, but we fail to listen with our hearts and mind as well, and because of that, many miscommunication and misunderstanding occurs. it always lead us to see their fault, although it...

gosh....such an indescribable feeling..such negativity flowing within and around me that i really could not grasp the other side of the story like how i used to train myself to do..i just can't seem to feel good about anything around me, not even myself.....gosh....and worse, i do not know the root cause...guess it is an accumulation of negativity set into a timed bomb and now it is the time! lately things have just gone to the other side; wrong to be precise. everything seemed to be wrong...maybe i have been wrong all these years, and only now MADE known to be wrong (worse still to the public, not a self discovery)....all these have seriously challenged my self esteem altogether..i now am starting to question everything that i am doing or have done or going to do...basically its just questions leading to another question leading to another question.....my self confidence is breaking, i am losing out on just being myself and it is something which i really do not want to happen......

Something good to share : It has been reported that the Dalai Lama, when asked what surprised him most about humanity, said: "Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die  and then dies having never really lived." ~well said piece! indeed, enjoy life to the fullest. the future will take its own course :)

It's been a while since i last posted here...well, as the title sound, i have embarked on a spiritual journey recently...i have come to realize (although not a new thing), that life is not just about working..and since work has take on a new path, i thought to myself that i needed to examine my inner being... Being able to attend a camp recently has certainly change me inside out..i am truly blessed for such an opportunity to really look deep down spiritually...spiritual...a huge word which bears such a great meaning but not many understands it....therefore, i am really glad for the experience.. I have always believe, that everything happens for a reason, and that reason is Him! and true enough, that was what i discovered from this camp (yeah, you may think how pathetic am I to take such a long time to realize this...but better late than never)....we were exposed to Evangelization...another huge word that most Christians know about, but few will come to know and understand the ...

R.E.S.P.E.C.T. a seven letter word, but such a fragile thing that everyone has to maintain it..once it is broken, it will only leave a scar no matter hw you try to restore it...as the saying goes, the tongue is mightier than the sword. though both are equally sharp, but word uttered may not be taken back anymore. it may be forgiven, but not forgotten... as innocent as we are humans, as vulnerable as we are humans, once it hurts, it will forever hurt, when the similar pain comes back..in fact, the second attack is often worse as compared to the previous... I often wondered, why do people like to provoke a certain feeling when they actually know the outcome of that particular situation. why create the guilt, the hatred, the anger? and often at the end of it, people like to say "see, i told you so" OR "i know already that he/she will say such"..then why do such in the first place? to proof a point? then wats the point? self satisfaction? we often thought that such wo...

What happens when you found out that mistakes were made years ago but no one has yet to notice it? Will you have the courage to face it and said it was wrong all these years, when it was carried out years before and you are only a rookie, trying to make a mark today? Will you be brave enough to tell people in their face that they were wrong? Do you have the confident that you are doing the right thing now? How sure are you that you are right while the rest are wrong since it has been such through out the years? questions after questions....when you are so sure you are doing the right thing, the wrongs will haunt you. especially when you were the only right (i hoped) and others were all following the wrong path...and when you are in such a situation, you will tend to doubt your own beliefs just because you were the minority! sounds familiar? well, that is something that is so common right now in todays world. and i realize that we do not be in the big picture (like to participate in r...

I always hear of the term "sacrifice" but what does it really meant to sacrifice? often enough, sacrifice is for loved ones, when we love them so we would do anything for them... however, at times, there is surely questions that arise; why did i do all those stuff? sacrificing my time and effort but in the end, what are the rewards? that is a very typical thinking, which i do not really blame people for having such thoughts. we are living in a materialistic world. although it may seem harsh, but that is the reality. people would not do something if they do not see the reward (s) that comes with it. that is the ugly truth... but what to do...sacrifice is always the norm of life. whether you see the reward(s) or not, you will eventually sacrifice your time and effort for your love ones, all because of love. It is the greatest thing of all..god bless us all