Not easy

Mixed feelings...that's how i have been feeling lately..things came and go...causing perturbation to the mind...confusion, distraction, unsure of what to do...or even worse, dont know how to feel; dont know how to even portray the right emotions..(hahaha this brings back memories of what i learnt in my personality class....) things have been happening around me, thankfully, not directly to me lah...but somehow, indirectly, it affected me to a certain extend as well

Some of my friends were in trouble lately, big trouble i shall say...i feel so bad for them, but somehow i just can't help much, because there is nothing much that i can help to solve it....all i can do is just to lend my ear to them, to be a platform for them to let things out of their shell...because speaking from experience, it is certainly very hard to just keep everything to oneself...slowly it will cause the body and mind to rot...hehe...too exaggerating pulak...hahahahaha..

anyhow, it was a lesson not just for my friends, but i also learnt from all that has happened and is happening. i've learnt that it is important to understand people, to learn to be in their shoes..because we may not understand how they feel unless we are experiencing the similar thing..humans always have a bad habit to jump into conclusion, making assumptions and false accusations just because we don't really know the truth...it is very important to learn to listen to other people, learn of the whole situation from either parties before making any conclusion...we have to try and think and feel like them in order to fully understand what they are in...no point just listening just for the sake of listening or sengaja wana 'kepoh' about people's problems...

it is not easy for a person to willing to open up to other people, of their emotions, problems or feelings towards something..not easy to find someone who we can totally trust to tell everything to them...not easy to just spill out every detail of our lives to someone,no matter how close that person is to you...it is certainly not easy.....its even harder to find someone who is willing to listen to you, to understand how you really feel, to be willing to help you out of your problems....however, i know only one person who is above all this criteria...He is the one and only person who totally understands us..He is the one who is willing to listen if only we are willing to tell it out...He is the one who is always there whenever we are in difficult situations...He is the one! Trust in Him and He will do the rest =)

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Anonymous said…
Thanks Moi. Sometimes, I too forgot to speak to Him and report to Him about what I have been facing everyday.

~ Son of Abraham
January 27, 2009 at 12:13 AM
Melvin said…
moi....update your blog....more then a month already.....
March 6, 2009 at 11:37 PM
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