Love taken lightly
if you've been following my blog posts, you will notice that of most recent, i have been talking alot about love and relationships... hahaha...well....let's just say that i have recently been experiencing alot of love from the people i meet...
so well yeah, i have the mood to write again..and yes, i still want to talk about love and share my thoughts about this.... lately, i came across a few scenarios where people seemed to take this whole "love relationship" in a different manner...they take it as if it is just a mere experiment, a go-with-the-flow kind of relationship, a play-play relationship, a for-fun-only relationship.... yeah, i am in no position to judge what they personally think of their own relationship, but it somehow is very disturbing for me...
the most cliche line of all times, "action speak louder than words"...yes, indeed. that is very true only when you know the person personally. but for strangers or any third party that views the 'words' exchange between two person who "claimed" to be in a relationship, words will definitely speak louder...other people only see the exterior, but only the two individuals, IN the relationship, knows the real deal here....why i am saying such is because it is indeed very disturbing when what the 'words' mentioned does not seem to be the real truth after all....you may say "i love you" to your partner through facebook postings, blogs,etc...but when you are question of your partner, you are denying what you said... why such? afraid? shy? ...
i believe very strongly that what you say is what you feel...and therefore, for those who do know me, you know that when i say something, i will really do it or i really meant it...hence, when i come across people who does not believe in their own words, that will always put a doubt in me against them....yes yes, we should not be judging them nor analyzing every word that comes from them, but sometimes, these are unavoidable...once bitten, twice shy...
well, what can i say. there are just so many different type of people out there who just take "love" as a joke, and not being serious about it...and that, honestly, scares me so... when love is taken lightly, you will see how the world is slowly depreciating.... only with love, we can make this world a better place (hahahaha...cliche line)
God bless us all.
so well yeah, i have the mood to write again..and yes, i still want to talk about love and share my thoughts about this.... lately, i came across a few scenarios where people seemed to take this whole "love relationship" in a different manner...they take it as if it is just a mere experiment, a go-with-the-flow kind of relationship, a play-play relationship, a for-fun-only relationship.... yeah, i am in no position to judge what they personally think of their own relationship, but it somehow is very disturbing for me...
the most cliche line of all times, "action speak louder than words"...yes, indeed. that is very true only when you know the person personally. but for strangers or any third party that views the 'words' exchange between two person who "claimed" to be in a relationship, words will definitely speak louder...other people only see the exterior, but only the two individuals, IN the relationship, knows the real deal here....why i am saying such is because it is indeed very disturbing when what the 'words' mentioned does not seem to be the real truth after all....you may say "i love you" to your partner through facebook postings, blogs,etc...but when you are question of your partner, you are denying what you said... why such? afraid? shy? ...
i believe very strongly that what you say is what you feel...and therefore, for those who do know me, you know that when i say something, i will really do it or i really meant it...hence, when i come across people who does not believe in their own words, that will always put a doubt in me against them....yes yes, we should not be judging them nor analyzing every word that comes from them, but sometimes, these are unavoidable...once bitten, twice shy...
well, what can i say. there are just so many different type of people out there who just take "love" as a joke, and not being serious about it...and that, honestly, scares me so... when love is taken lightly, you will see how the world is slowly depreciating.... only with love, we can make this world a better place (hahahaha...cliche line)
God bless us all.
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