The weather and me...
I was very astonished to see the change in the weather last friday within just 1hour....
It was just so amazing to see how the weather changes so quickly, its as though the sky was mad at something and it showed its temper by raining so so so heavily, and then it subsided....does it ring a bell?
don't we all behave like that too when something not right happens? we will sulk la, show 'long long face' la, just like how the sky was blackening at the beginning.....slowly, a clear sky, turning black and dark, just like us, slowly heating up and turning 'black' inside and sometimes it shows on our expressions....
then when we can't take it, we just 'burst' it out....either we scold/argue with someone or when things are just too bad, we just burst out crying cause we just don't know what to do or who to turn to...just like the sky...duno where and how to get rid of the 'black skies', just 'dump' it all there and then...just continue pouring rain, pour and pour till 'it' is satisfied....
when we are satisfied already, then everything just goes back to normal...the feeling of anger or frustration just subside, like as though nothing happens...just like the weather....after about such heavy pour for 35 minutes, then it just stop and subside, just like that........
Looking at the weather change, it really tells alot of our own lives too. it reflects our life, our very own lives, not others, but our selves....look at the rain, in just 1hour, it changes so quickly...dark skies, heavy pour, rain subsides!...but what does it caused? massive traffic jam because people are driving very slowly due to the slippery roads and low vision on the road, people getting wet and cold..worse still, sometimes accidents do happen, and paling teruk when your car breaks down and you get trap in the cold and wet weather....my gosh!!
The same thing goes, when we are angry or frustrated, with yourself or other people or the situation around us, we would just burst or show our anger and feelings..either by scolding, showing our temper (hentak hentak table la, walk with superly big and loud steps,etc.) just so that we can release what ever that is within us, and after that 'episode', we will just go back to normal, calm down like nothing has ever happen......but do we realise that during that 'episode', other people around us are affected? have we ever notice that, rather than just focusing on your own self? your anger or 'exhibition of frustration' actually does affect the people around you...some may feel insulted, or dejected or just plain hurt...they may be in a more difficult situation than we are but somehow feel's trap and seeing us in such a situation will not dare to approach us and rather be in their own 'dark world'....do we just care about ourselves and not others?
so...what is this all about? (some may get wat i mean, some may just think im crapping my heads off....what so ever, i just want to share what i feel, that's all..no intention on hurting anyone in the process of writing this post..hehe....)
well, all im saying is that, it's not all bad to show ur frustration or anger, but don't go overboard till it affects the people around you...they may be hurt or feel uncomfortable with the way you are acting....i know it's easier said than done, because when you are in that situation, your mind just can't realy be thinking rational.....but don't just react to something without thinking of the consequences....what you do, may affect other people as well...~something to ponder~
4.31pm: the sky was so clearly divided into two; 'black and white'..rain starting to pour
4.51pm : the sky was totally white!! its was just purely WHITE!! it was raining so so so heavy
5.26pm : the sky was back to normal again...rain stop, but still drizzled....
It was just so amazing to see how the weather changes so quickly, its as though the sky was mad at something and it showed its temper by raining so so so heavily, and then it subsided....does it ring a bell?
don't we all behave like that too when something not right happens? we will sulk la, show 'long long face' la, just like how the sky was blackening at the beginning.....slowly, a clear sky, turning black and dark, just like us, slowly heating up and turning 'black' inside and sometimes it shows on our expressions....
then when we can't take it, we just 'burst' it out....either we scold/argue with someone or when things are just too bad, we just burst out crying cause we just don't know what to do or who to turn to...just like the sky...duno where and how to get rid of the 'black skies', just 'dump' it all there and then...just continue pouring rain, pour and pour till 'it' is satisfied....
when we are satisfied already, then everything just goes back to normal...the feeling of anger or frustration just subside, like as though nothing happens...just like the weather....after about such heavy pour for 35 minutes, then it just stop and subside, just like that........
Looking at the weather change, it really tells alot of our own lives too. it reflects our life, our very own lives, not others, but our selves....look at the rain, in just 1hour, it changes so quickly...dark skies, heavy pour, rain subsides!...but what does it caused? massive traffic jam because people are driving very slowly due to the slippery roads and low vision on the road, people getting wet and cold..worse still, sometimes accidents do happen, and paling teruk when your car breaks down and you get trap in the cold and wet weather....my gosh!!
The same thing goes, when we are angry or frustrated, with yourself or other people or the situation around us, we would just burst or show our anger and feelings..either by scolding, showing our temper (hentak hentak table la, walk with superly big and loud steps,etc.) just so that we can release what ever that is within us, and after that 'episode', we will just go back to normal, calm down like nothing has ever happen......but do we realise that during that 'episode', other people around us are affected? have we ever notice that, rather than just focusing on your own self? your anger or 'exhibition of frustration' actually does affect the people around you...some may feel insulted, or dejected or just plain hurt...they may be in a more difficult situation than we are but somehow feel's trap and seeing us in such a situation will not dare to approach us and rather be in their own 'dark world'....do we just care about ourselves and not others?
so...what is this all about? (some may get wat i mean, some may just think im crapping my heads off....what so ever, i just want to share what i feel, that's all..no intention on hurting anyone in the process of writing this post..hehe....)
well, all im saying is that, it's not all bad to show ur frustration or anger, but don't go overboard till it affects the people around you...they may be hurt or feel uncomfortable with the way you are acting....i know it's easier said than done, because when you are in that situation, your mind just can't realy be thinking rational.....but don't just react to something without thinking of the consequences....what you do, may affect other people as well...~something to ponder~
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