Anger

a phrase, i saw a few weeks back, came to my mind :

anger is a letter short of danger

when i first saw this phrase, i totally like it...it is true...because it shows how anger is so closely related to danger, though just a letter short, but deep in meaning....

i heard of so many stories since i came back home for the raya break...alot of stories about people around us, about unexpected situations and happenings that took place, be it positive or negative.....and mostly i can say, is related to anger! Anger is caused by so many sources..words, actions, thoughts, etc....everything is vulnerable to anger.....a slight disturbance can create such a great extend of anger within oneself and if uncontrollable, it will lead to danger in various forms...
An angry feeling can be provoked by so many situations....stubborn-ness, disbelieve in others, unwilling to open up to others, etc...

Is being angry a sin? i'm not too sure about that, but then i think it all depends on what form of anger is it; where does it lead us to; to the better or to the worse? does this anger make us wanna bomb the entire world or does it motivates us to be a better person and to improve ourself? the latter is definitely not a sin as it helps us to grow to be a better person, but it is the former that worries us all.....an anger that is directed towards the negative aspect will lead to very undesirable circumstances, either towards that person itself or towards the people around them...and worse stil, when it affects everyone in his/her vicinity..oh my! i just cant imagine what will happen then...

however, always remember that everybody cannot please everybody...because everybody is just so different from one another...so its no use to waste your anger and be judgemental, because at the end of the day, it is God above who has the right to judge everything...just be strong and constantly pray, God will do the rest....please be with him...he has gone through alot...i don't want him to be hurt anymore......

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