A review of 21 years of life
21 years!! hmmm....that's long huh...but in a way, that is only the starting age for many more things to come in life...its like life is just at the point of beginning...converging into so many directions, which just aim at confusing us to which path to follow.....life oh life...why is it like that?
21 years of life was certainly not a smooth going process or period...there were certainly many ups and downs, which i gues everyone has to go through...its part and parcel of life ;)...hmm...i would like to walk down memory lane....but where to start ah? ...hahaha....hmmm....start frm uni life or schooling life..or start rite from my mother's womb? hahahahaha......well then, i think i shall start at the point when i think "life" starts for me.....my late teen years...
late teen was when i was in Form 6...its a long time ago, but i belief tat was the beginning of it all...everything....from studies, to friends to just about anything.....studies in Form 6 was superly not easy at all, and friends were there to help you and also to break you...friendship was an important factor then, because they are the ones that can help u pull through this difficult yet important period....however, they can be the ones who 'break' you during this period....and that was what i went through....i felt alone then....though i may seem happy-go-lucky, but deep inside of me, was the opposite of it all....the pressure from friends plus the criticism....my gosh!! to think back, i just don't know what make me pull through....but i believe that my family being there is a strong base and reason for me being able to be strong and go all out and proof them (friends) wrong!...and i did it...and that is why i am where i am now!
university.....gosh! this is really a stepping stone to life....no more going back home to relax and de-stress...im totally in this all alone....and my family are supporting right from the back, back at home...some 120km away or so...im all alone in this fiercely competiting world!! arrgghhh.....can i make it? hmmm..... met so many people, all different in their own way, unique they may be.....went through so many situations which change me inside out...stress, tension, pressure...all also felt before....sadness, joy, laughter, tears....everything aso happened....uni life is certainly a training ground for the real world outside...the different people that we will meet and work with, the situations that you have to deal in your work, the stress and tension in the workplace....its just so similar.......
friends...hmmm...so much i can talk about of the friends that i meet in uni....friendly, kind, self-centered, selfish, helpfull, kia-su, proud, competitive, narcississtic....my gosh, all types of people i encountered....it does is stressful when encountering them, but somehow, it help me to be stronger and prepared to face anyone that comes my way in near future....being with them also helps me see myself more, parts of me which i never knew existed....and throughout the friendships that i've make, i think the most important is UNDERSTANDING of one another....if we are able to understand the people around us, life is much more easier...no more miscommunication, no more arguments, criticism,etc....because 'everybody can't please everybody!'....all we need to do is just to understand this tag line, and things will be much more easier....but then........
haiah.....21 years of ups and downs....changed me inside out....spiritually and emotionally as well....i've begin to see that everything is His plan...all we have to do is to be patient with Him and he will definitely guide you.....life has to go on.....
goodbye 21, welcome 22.......hope you don't disapoint me! i'm looking forward to you....=)
21 years of life was certainly not a smooth going process or period...there were certainly many ups and downs, which i gues everyone has to go through...its part and parcel of life ;)...hmm...i would like to walk down memory lane....but where to start ah? ...hahaha....hmmm....start frm uni life or schooling life..or start rite from my mother's womb? hahahahaha......well then, i think i shall start at the point when i think "life" starts for me.....my late teen years...
late teen was when i was in Form 6...its a long time ago, but i belief tat was the beginning of it all...everything....from studies, to friends to just about anything.....studies in Form 6 was superly not easy at all, and friends were there to help you and also to break you...friendship was an important factor then, because they are the ones that can help u pull through this difficult yet important period....however, they can be the ones who 'break' you during this period....and that was what i went through....i felt alone then....though i may seem happy-go-lucky, but deep inside of me, was the opposite of it all....the pressure from friends plus the criticism....my gosh!! to think back, i just don't know what make me pull through....but i believe that my family being there is a strong base and reason for me being able to be strong and go all out and proof them (friends) wrong!...and i did it...and that is why i am where i am now!
university.....gosh! this is really a stepping stone to life....no more going back home to relax and de-stress...im totally in this all alone....and my family are supporting right from the back, back at home...some 120km away or so...im all alone in this fiercely competiting world!! arrgghhh.....can i make it? hmmm..... met so many people, all different in their own way, unique they may be.....went through so many situations which change me inside out...stress, tension, pressure...all also felt before....sadness, joy, laughter, tears....everything aso happened....uni life is certainly a training ground for the real world outside...the different people that we will meet and work with, the situations that you have to deal in your work, the stress and tension in the workplace....its just so similar.......
friends...hmmm...so much i can talk about of the friends that i meet in uni....friendly, kind, self-centered, selfish, helpfull, kia-su, proud, competitive, narcississtic....my gosh, all types of people i encountered....it does is stressful when encountering them, but somehow, it help me to be stronger and prepared to face anyone that comes my way in near future....being with them also helps me see myself more, parts of me which i never knew existed....and throughout the friendships that i've make, i think the most important is UNDERSTANDING of one another....if we are able to understand the people around us, life is much more easier...no more miscommunication, no more arguments, criticism,etc....because 'everybody can't please everybody!'....all we need to do is just to understand this tag line, and things will be much more easier....but then........
haiah.....21 years of ups and downs....changed me inside out....spiritually and emotionally as well....i've begin to see that everything is His plan...all we have to do is to be patient with Him and he will definitely guide you.....life has to go on.....
goodbye 21, welcome 22.......hope you don't disapoint me! i'm looking forward to you....=)
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