"Weirdos?"
For the past few months, I have been learning quite a lot about people’s personality and how they adapt to the environment around them. And it does indeed, been quite an interesting ride, as I really get to know of various types of people and therefore, learn to accept them as who they are. I feel that it is really important because, when we actually take the initiative to learn about a person, we will tend to understand them better. Hence, we shall not treat or rather categorized them as ‘weird’ or ‘crazy’ just because they are not the norm or in easier word, just not like us.
Isn’t it funny? we always feel that people who are not like us in actions or thinking, are weird? don’t you think that this won’t happen vice versa, whereby they, in their thinking, think that we are weird then? Hahaha…then it will be two individuals talking to each other, but calling each other weird just because they are different to their own way? Are we so normal?.... It is true, we humans, always think that we are highly above anyone else, we are better than anyone else, or we are just simply the best! That’s human nature in today’s world…. Everyone is so individualistic now, no more sharing sharing, it is just me, myself and I….which leads to the categorizing of people in our own view…at the back of our own heads, there is always a category chart of people we know or meet; e.g.: A is selfish, B is stupid, C is weird, D is bossy, etc….
That is the bad thing about human beings : categorizing people! Every individual is made unique, ok, maybe identical twins have similar physical features, but everyone has their own set of personalities that make them who they are…we tend to categorize people, just because they are different from us….but do we actually know the reason behind their behaviour? Why is A selfish? Why is B stupid?.... There is always a reason for everything whether you like it or not…I'm not suggesting that we all turn into Sherlock Holmes and look into the history of a person to find out the cause of their behaviour, but what can be done is just to learn to understand and accept them as who they are, learn to adapt to them and not just sidelined them altogether…its not fair to them as well…
Every individual has been created the way they are…and has a right to life, like anyone of us…. We have no right to categorize people, because they do not asked to be made that way…give them the opportunity to life as well…they are also humans as we are.. learn to live with it! Life would be more colourful then
Isn’t it funny? we always feel that people who are not like us in actions or thinking, are weird? don’t you think that this won’t happen vice versa, whereby they, in their thinking, think that we are weird then? Hahaha…then it will be two individuals talking to each other, but calling each other weird just because they are different to their own way? Are we so normal?.... It is true, we humans, always think that we are highly above anyone else, we are better than anyone else, or we are just simply the best! That’s human nature in today’s world…. Everyone is so individualistic now, no more sharing sharing, it is just me, myself and I….which leads to the categorizing of people in our own view…at the back of our own heads, there is always a category chart of people we know or meet; e.g.: A is selfish, B is stupid, C is weird, D is bossy, etc….
That is the bad thing about human beings : categorizing people! Every individual is made unique, ok, maybe identical twins have similar physical features, but everyone has their own set of personalities that make them who they are…we tend to categorize people, just because they are different from us….but do we actually know the reason behind their behaviour? Why is A selfish? Why is B stupid?.... There is always a reason for everything whether you like it or not…I'm not suggesting that we all turn into Sherlock Holmes and look into the history of a person to find out the cause of their behaviour, but what can be done is just to learn to understand and accept them as who they are, learn to adapt to them and not just sidelined them altogether…its not fair to them as well…
Every individual has been created the way they are…and has a right to life, like anyone of us…. We have no right to categorize people, because they do not asked to be made that way…give them the opportunity to life as well…they are also humans as we are.. learn to live with it! Life would be more colourful then
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